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Babies
also like being warm. However it's also possible to
overdress a baby, so be sensible about it. When checking the
baby, look for very red skin, and see if the baby is
sweating. Either of these signs suggest the baby is almost
certainly too hot. A good rule of thumb with dressing your
baby is one layer more than you're wearing. If the baby is
too hot or cold, then adjust clothing or covers to suit the
temperature.
Next, is your baby hungry? Is
it a while since the last feed? Did the baby maybe feed a
little less than normal at the last feed, and so perhaps is
hungry quicker this time around? Try nursing or offering a
bottle. Babies do need to eat frequently, because they are
growing so quickly. Often the action of sucking helps to
soothe the baby, even if they're not very hungry. Babies are
very good at knowing when they've had enough, and will stop.
So don't worry too much about overfeeding. The baby will
stop crying once he's not hungry any more.
After
feeding, many babies develop gas. The baby's digestive
system is only just developing, and eating is a very new
experience. Sometimes crying means the baby has some gas
rumbling around in the tummy, and needs to be burped. Put a
cloth on your shoulder, and hold the baby against your
shoulder so that his stomach is against the front of your
shoulder. Make sure the head is well forward, or support the
head if you can. Rub his back firmly, in a circular motion.
This helps to put pressure on the digestive system both
front and back, and often produces the required burping.
Some gentle patting may also help, but be very careful if
you decide to do this - babies are very delicate.
You
may even find that just going for a walk with the baby on
your shoulder helps. Babies seem to like movement, probably
because they're used to being bounced around in the womb.
But also, being held close to a parent is very soothing for
a baby. Babies love to be held and cuddled - despite some
suggestions to the contrary, you can't hold your baby too
much.
Some
babies also find it very soothing to be swaddled in a small
blanket. Swaddling involves wrapping the blanket around the
baby's body fairly tightly. The arms are held close to the
baby. In some ways this feels a lot like the womb to a baby,
because they were tightly enclosed in there too. Sometimes
the sudden experience of being able to move around can
distress a baby. Your health professional should be able to
teach you how to swaddle the baby effectively. It's
important to make sure, though, that the head and neck
remain uncovered.
Once
you've gone through the list above - check the diaper, check
the baby's temperature, try a feed or a burp, and swaddle
the baby - and the baby's still crying, then trying holding
the baby close and making a rhythmic "shhhh" sound near the
baby's ear. If it sounds a little bit like a wave on the
beach, great. That's the sort of sound the baby heard in the
womb, and is often very reassuring and soothing. Some babies
are very sensitive to noise, and an average home produces a
lot of noise! You can even try a radio tuned off station, so
all you can hear is "white noise".
Over
time, you'll find that you begin to recognise the difference
between your baby's cries, and so probably won't need to go
right through the checklist every time baby cries. However
if at any time you suspect your baby may be sick or in pain,
or if he's still crying even after checking all of the above
things, it's always best to visit your health care
professional, just to make sure everything is okay.
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